DiscoverParenting Teens: Advice Redefined for Today's Complex World~121 "Building the Dream Team: Parents, Teachers, and Teens :Advocacy 101"
~121 "Building the Dream Team: Parents, Teachers, and Teens :Advocacy 101"

~121 "Building the Dream Team: Parents, Teachers, and Teens :Advocacy 101"

Update: 2025-09-10
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https://www.crissmadrigal.com/alignment-audit



Criss Madrigal is a woman living the most aligned season of her life. She became a mother of three in just two years while juggling a demanding corporate career and family life. After losing herself in motherhood—advocating for her identical twins with complex medical needs and holding it all together—Criss experienced a deep awakening. Today, as a Sacred Alignment Coach, she guides women back to the remembrance of their soul, helping them reconnect with who they are and what they’re here to accomplish in this lifetime.



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1. Podcast Introduction & Call‑to‑Action




  • Welcome to Parenting Teens Advice, Redefined – raw, tough conversations.

  • Request to share each episode: “Even if it doesn’t resonate now, it could change a life later.”



2. Guest Spotlight: Criss Madrigal




  • Sacred Alignment Coach, mother of three (identical twins with complex medical needs).

  • Journey from “surviving” corporate motherhood to an “aligned season.”

  • Struggles with advocacy for neuro‑divergent children and guilt around the neurotypical child.



3. Defining Advocacy




  • Advocacy as partnership (mom + experts = collaborative problem‑solving).

  • Distinguishing advocacy from controlling / fixing.

  • “I’m the expert on my child; you’re the subject‑matter expert on your field.”



4. Advocacy Evolution as Kids Enter Their Teens




  • Shift from parent‑driven advocacy to teaching children to self‑advocate.

  • Preparing teens for high‑school IEP meetings, college, and workplace accommodations.



5. The “Dream Team” Model




  • Parents as coaches, children as star players.

  • Building a support squad: teachers, specialists, parents, the child.



6. Involving Teens in IEP & Planning Processes




  • Having the teen sit in on meetings from the start; know what an IEP is and why it exists.

  • Translating IEP language into teen‑friendly terms.

  • Reinforcing wins: reminding kids of past successful self‑advocacy moments.



7. Communication Strategies with Schools




  • One‑page PDF “Meet My Child” handout: photo, brief diagnosis, strengths/needs, contact info, useful articles/links.

  • Early‑year teacher outreach to set tone and expectations.

  • Establishing a manageable communication system (e.g., Friday email check‑in, Monday call).



8. Proactive vs. Reactive Parent‑Teacher Interaction




  • Sending pre‑emptive notes on student mood/medication, not just “after‑the‑fact” alerts.

  • Maintaining an open line: parents email teachers with home observations; teachers respond with classroom insights.



9. Teaching Advocacy at Home (Everyday Situations)




  • Turning chores into negotiation opportunities (“I don’t want to fold dishes, can I do X instead?”).

  • Encouraging kids to voice preferences, set boundaries, and contribute a plan for the day.

  • Using small victories to build confidence for larger advocacy moments.



10. Managing Parental Emotions in Advocacy Settings




  • Recognizing that angry parents are often fearful (graduation, friendships, safety).

  • Asking “Who is caring for the parent?” – parental self‑care and emotional support.

  • Practicing compassion both ways: parents toward teachers and teachers toward parents.



11. The Role of Professional Advocates




  • When parents feel unequipped, hiring an advocate to teach rights and collaboration.

  • The advocate’s goal is to transfer the skill so the family becomes self‑sufficient.



12. The Human‑Design Mention (Future Topic)




  • Brief reference to using a child’s human‑design type to tailor communication & responsibility.



13. How to Connect with Criss Madrigal




  • Find her via first + last name on social media.

  • Join her Facebook community for high‑achieving women & soul‑led experts.

  • Resources and ways to work together listed in the show notes.



14. Host Cheryl Pankhurst – Insight to Impact Coaching




  • Cheryl’s role: creator of Insight to Impact, coaching moms of teens.

  • Core promises: reconnect with true self, lead with purpose, clearer parenting, stronger relationships.

  • Invitation to a no‑pressure, no‑pitch discovery call (details in show notes).



15. Closing & Final Call‑to‑Action




  • Thank listeners, tease a possible third episode (human‑design).

  • Reminder that transformation starts with the parent; encourage booking a call.



 



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~121 "Building the Dream Team: Parents, Teachers, and Teens :Advocacy 101"

~121 "Building the Dream Team: Parents, Teachers, and Teens :Advocacy 101"

Cheryl Pankhurst